This
is a page with
actual dream-marriage-my complaints
that I have received from men. I have more, I simply don't keep every
letter that I receive for dream-marriage-my. There a some complaint
letters
already listed on the previous dream-marriage-my page. This is where I
list
the excess complaints and let you make your own decision about
dream-marriage-my.
AUG
'09 - MAJOR NEWS - LETTER FROM AGENCYSCAMS READER...
You
may remember me, mr. Jim, I was once cheated by a dishonest Ukrainian -
making me swear never to put my feet in Odessa ever again and to avoid
the state of Ukraine if possible, but that is another story - miss Inna
Grigoryevna Matveychuk. Always since I was on her tail and had her
reported to the agency whenever I found her. I never found her at
Anastasia Inc., but I did find her once at DM, and I
reported her profile to the agency management. Lo and behold - the
return message, thanking me for the information and announcing that the
profile had been removed, came from the head office of Anastasia Inc.!
Establishing the fact that DM is not merely an affiliate of
Anastasia but a daughter company of the main Anastasia. The screen
image may be different and the database likewise, but DM is
squarely a member of the Anastasia family and should be regarded as
such.
more...
Eh, Jim..
Definetively, it is confirmed. Facebook is publishing
www.DM ads...
The spaniard version says:
¿Quieres una novia?
It is said
Do you want a girlfriend?
And it is linked to the website...
As I told you, I have written to the Facebook administrator.
more...
Jim,
I just have to say Thank You, Thank You, Thank You for your
website. I knew
something fishy was going on with "my DM" and it
just took
a
simple Google search to find your website and really open my eyes to the
P.O.S. scammer website calling itself "DM".
They
should call
themselves "dream scammers". I hope all the jackass people
that own the
site and are doing this crap get what they have coming to them because
IT'S
WRONG. I can't add much to everyone's complaints because I
have experienced
ALL of the same crap. I just sat here and read everything
with my jaw wide
open. Granted, I'm about 300.00 poorer in the last 4 days,
but it's a fine
lesson to learn. Again, thank you for your website..Now if
there was a way
to get everyone's attention BEFORE they get lured in, that would be
nice!
Thanks,
****
p.s. I met a great guy from U.S.A. that now lives in Nikolaev who said
that
he counted 15 ads within a week in the local papers from the agencies
trying
to hire 20-23 year old girls to work for them in scamming.
They pay the
girls up to 60% of whatever they make from chat rooms, emails,
etc. It's
just too bad that everyone has to be so greedy these days.
more...
Dear Jim,
Having read your page on my DM, I can agree
wholeheartedly with what's been said about this site. But I
can add much, much more. This site is a complete scam, in every way and
from every different angle, from the letters that are supposedly sent
by the ladies to the live chat feature.
Since joining the site 2 months ago I've received many hundreds
of introduction letters (usually about 20 each day). Usually
they are sent in batches, i.e. one batch from girls in
Nikolaev, then another batch from girls in Mariupol, etc.
Usually the letters in each batch are about the same length,
and seem to be written by someone with a lot of experience
writing letters (and especially from someone who is tired of
writing the same thing over and over again). The letters
NEVER come with an accompanying photo - very unusual for
online letter-writing! They never mention anything from my profile, and
only use my name once, in the first "Hello !"
Furthermore...
I've received introductions from ladies I'm corresponding
with (or have corresponded with) on other sites, which addressed me as
a stranger I've received introductions from ladies I've
written to but not received a reply from on other sites,
which addressed me as a stranger I've received introductions
from ladies I've already chatted with on DM,
which addressed me as a stranger
As for the live chat, yes, it's mostly the same girls on there, every
day, for many hours. Most are in Nikolaev, Mariupol, Pskov,
St. Petersburg, and Tomsk. However, the fact that they're
from the same cities can't be taken as a red flag, because
that's simply where the agency has its offices. But the fact
that it's mostly the same girls all the time, and they'll do anything
and everything to keep you chatting with them, and try to get
you to view their webcam (at extra cost), and the fact that
girls as young as 18 want to chat with a 44yo man, are all
BIG red flags!
Without exception, within 20 seconds of signing into the site, I'm hit
with about 7-10 chat invitations. None of the ladies who
invite me to chat have looked at my profile, but have just
seen me appear in a list of men online. They only know my
name - not my age, height, weight, location, or any other
information that would be of interest to a lady genuinely looking
for love.
On one occasion, I tried telling a woman in Tomsk that I had very
serious doubts about the site, and no matter how much I tried
telling her why, she defended the agency vehemently, and
tried very hard to change the subject simply to keep me
chatting. I ended up just closing the chat window. I've been told by
several ladies that they're aware of dishonest practices by
the agency, and have confirmed that "some of the other ladies
chatting online" do work for the agency. I've also been told
by several different ladies that the agency sends out
introduction letters on their behalf. Two ladies told me that
they are not allowed to send out initial introduction letters
(!!!). Most ladies on the live chat know that the agency
doesn't allow contact information to be exchanged there, and
most of these are unwilling to try to find a way to do it
anyway (a few have been willing though).
Maybe there are some honest, serious ladies on this site, but it's just
too difficult to recognise them among the majority who are
there simply to make money for the agency. It's difficult to
imagine what could incentivise these ladies to work so hard
for the agency, unless they are actually getting paid to do
it. This theory stands up well when another interesting fact is added
to the picture...
I found one lady on DM, whom I added to my Favourites list.
Subsequently she added me to hers. So I wrote her an
introduction letter (specifically to her), and she replied
with a generic introduction letter (ending with "I hope, that
really good person will respond this letter, whom I would be able to
fulfil my dreams with. I’d like to say
“Thank you” to everybody."). I remember
seeing her on Kherson Girls, so I wrote to her on there. I
expected that she would treat my letter as from a stranger,
but in fact she replied, thanking me for my letter, and asked
to continue our correspondence on DM. I've subsequently found
her on AFA and Angelique Network. She also said in her intro letter
that she has a child, but it turns out she doesn't.
I wrote to a lady on russian-women.net last November. In the meantime,
I found her on DM, and added her to my Favourites list. She
corresponded and so I wrote to her on DM. She sent a very
nice reply, apparently interested in getting to know me.
Today I received a notice from RW saying that this lady is
not interested in corresponding with me. I corresponded
briefly with another lady on DM. I found her profile on
another site (RW), and mentioned it to her (without telling
her which site). She said her profile isn't with any other agencies.
So I wrote to her on RW, and she wrote to me on DM saying
she'd received my letter, and asked me if I wanted her to
reply on there.
Another lady wrote to me on DM. I replied and we chatted and exchanged
a few emails. Like any lady I've encountered on DM, I googled
her, and found her in many scam sites, reporting her as a
prostitute.
Many of the ladies on DM can be found on other sites, including
such "reputable" sites as AFA, russian-women.net, Kherson
Girls, and Elena's Models. I regularly receive letters from
ladies on Elena's Models, who subsequently get removed for
bad ethics, etc. It's good that they get removed, but very bad
that it happens so often. How many slip through the net? As
for AFA, in the last few months I've sent out 48 virtual
emails (one-off payment that allows girls to reply with their
own email addresses), and received only 4 replies, 2 of which
didn't reply to my follow-up. I also sent 42 Express emails
(pay-per-letter and per-photo, sent and received), and
received 32 replies. The inconsistency of these response
ratios defies explanation!
It seems that none of these agencies can be trusted anymore. I'm sure
there are honest, genuine ladies out there, but finding them
through an agency - any agency - seems too much like playing
Russian Roulette. I've always shied away from going to former
SU countries to make new contacts (having always made
contacts first, and then gone), but now I think it's the only way to
find and meet like-minded ladies. Still no guarantee of
success, but less chance of wasting huge amounts of time and
money with nothing to show for it except a full Inbox folder
and an ever fuller Trash folder.
more...
Hello Jim,
I am very glad for a site such
as yours. I read the letter about DM
and would like to confirm what was stated in the letter by another man. DM is a scam site. I too have noticed that the same
women are on
the site
in certain time frames. During the overnight hours in Ukraine I see
certain
women on the Live Chat all night each night. Obviously they must work
for DM. I had complained to DM more than
once about them
being a
scam and the only thing they responded to was me threatening to dispute
the
charges on my Visa because they are a scam agency. I asked them four
times for
an office address in the US and only on the fourth try did they finally
give me
an address. The address is in Santa Monica, CA. The address is real but
when I
searched on-line for what is at that address it came back with results
for three or four
businesses none being DM.I finally managed to get a
friend
who lives in
CA to go to the address and he told me DM is not there.
I
have since filed
a complaint to get the money back saying the agency as well as the
communication is
a scam. I am glad I used my Visa, it is the only chance I would have of
getting my money
back. A, supposedly, young lady I had been in contact with for a month
on their site has
profiles on five other sites all listed on your Black List. I did not
know about
the other profiles until this evening (Friday 2/29/08). The photos of
her on these
sites are photos I have never seen and on two of the sites her listed
birth date is
different and both are different from the listed birth date on DM. I
thought trying to find a woman in America who will not lie or cheat was
bad but
trying to find a legitimate Russian or Ukrainian lady is just as
difficult. DM is definitely a scam! I don't know the
lady's surname so I
searched using
her first name and city together and that is how I found her on other
sites. Oh, one
more thing about the scam emails from DM. A
good
example of how bad
they are at disguising the fake letters: For three days straight I
received 70 or
more letters each day and one day during the first week I received a
letter from a
"lady" who said she read my profile and is very interested in meeting
me as "I have
always wanted to visit the United Arab Emirates". Very screwed up since
my profile
states that I am in the United States. The young lady I had been
chatting with for
a month would have to leave within 10 to 15 minutes after I had just
spent more
money to add more credits so we could continue chatting. I did notice
this and
after a few times of her doing that I made comments about it but she
just insisted
she had to leave and would talk to me again. I have actually filed a
complaint
about them being a fraud with IC3 of the FBI.
more...
I
corresponded with a woman called Rita, on
www.my DM for several months.
She said she cannot wait to meet me, I planned to travel to Ukraine to
meet her in Nikolaev, and she would book accommodation and meet me at
the airport.
Suddenly she writes to me and says she cannot correspond with me
anymore, as she has met her soul mate and is very happy with him.
Today I checked the site www.behappy2day.com and saw her
exact same profile under the name of Margarita.
more...
Hello Jim
I
came across your site today...I know you must be busy, so if you don't
respond I will understand....I have been communicating with a girl from
Mariupol, Ukraine the correspondence has been
regular...we connected
on dream-marriage-my...but I'm beginning to get an uneasy feeling about
being scammed...I have sent her personal info such as pictures of me
and my sons doing everyday American things...the trouble is she doesn't
do the same, expect for the first few letters, no pictures, no personal
info....she claims that we need to meet before she feels comfortable
sharing anything personal about her life....I am thinking about
traveling to Ukraine to meet her, but after reviewing your web site I
have serous doubts about doing this....my question is are all these
ladies a scam? what questions should I ask her to find out for sure?
are there any places that I can search for successful Russian bride
stories?
Thank You so much
****
more...
Boy oh boy....is
this one trying to shoot itself in the foot or what!!!
I've
only joined as a free member, now I'm not a bad looking
guy.............but really.....in less than 5 days I've
recieved.....wait for it..........over 1800 messages from hot girls.
I've just checked again and there have been a further 46 since I
switched my computer on this morning! I've been to Ukraine in the past
and it really is just overflowing with hot girls, but the majority seem
to be born natural wallet surgeons!
DMs are too unconvincing.....do they really get people
to
sign up with this over the top nonsense?
I'm now concerned that they will be using my photos. This has happened
before.Anyway I can find out if they are?
****
more...
Dear
Jim If you know
other places to alert about DM They
are one of the biggest scammers. I have foung 8 different women that
all want me come to visit them on at least 12 different sights if you
need their names I can provide them to you and their numbers at each
site I feel all of these sites are some how interconnected as
they
have the same thing as to buy tokens, credits, points and the
list
goes on from DM to army of brides, anastasia, brides
agency, they all have the same woman on each one, in cluding adam
&eva, where one woman keeps poping up all over the place and
she
must run from russia to cremia ukraine and some how I know there are a
few women that are good women caught into these out fits that promes
them the world. I know for a fact that one told me by phone that DM
has not charged her but for guys it is a horrible
rippoff. I
know for what I got out of them as a product that they are selling
which is a woman to marry the guy would be cheaper to just
fly over to
Ukraine and walkm down the street and pick out the woman! I know
because I was there through a brides agency and got so badly rippedoff
from one lady I already reported to you. Hope she never gets off of
your list as Just the other day she wrote me another letter asking for
$550 dollars. I wounder if these agencys are not putting these ladys up
to this? makes me very un easy when this is going on. Like ukraine
moffia with these women. Could be wrong I don't think so
more...
Dear Jim
In early
2007 I joined DM Agency website.
One thing I noticed write away was everytime I logged on there were
many young girls wanting to chat with me. It did
not take long to
realize the girls were online the same time nearly everyday.
I did
exchange email and phone numbers with one woman who told me during one
of our conversations the initial letters sent to me were written by
other women in the agency without her knowledge. She went on
to tell
me there were time when she went into the local DM
Agency
in St. Peterburg and the same girls were always present. When I learned
this I cancelled my membership. She dropped her membership
from that
agency. We did actually meet. She is a great lady.
Thought you might
be interested in one more story that shows that agency does rip men off.
more...
Hi Jim,
Here is the shocking truth about my DM after I did
some
investigation
work on them.. I live in the u.s.a. The truth about my DM.. They are
owned by a fortune 500 company. something solutions. the server
terminal is in Santa
Monica California. billing is in Carson city Nevada. which is south of
Reno Nevada
about 50 miles... so that brings a big red flag to me.. I was talking
to a girl on
dream-marriage-my for just over 3 months... I dropped off due to the
extremely high
cost.. And yes I was really talking to her.. And she was real.. I sent
a couple
gifts for her birth day... well I don't know where dream-marriage-my
started using her
account. but i noticed that. her letters and English was suddenly more
American
wrote.. which made me stop and think.. so after dropping off. I go
ogled her first
name. and after a couple hours found her last name. which lead me to
her face
book... And no i wasn't stalking her.. So I sent her a letter
through face book to see what happened... and just as i
thought. she never sent
nothing back.. which told me a lot.. so after some further
investigation... and
signing up for the following 2 sites..... "MegaType.com" And
"FreelanceWriter.com"
Those 2 sites are for people who like to write.. Here's the
really bad thing... I
have found ads in both sites. many dating agencies looking to hire
script
writers,bloggers,proof readers, message box or chatters. and people to
write
e-mails.. I told you this.. to explain the rest of the
story... the girl i was
talking to.. I asked her if she wanted to trade personal info... no
answer... Asked
the same girl 2 more times if she wanted to trade personal info.. no
answer... So
I waited asked again after a little time.. same thing... so I figured
that she
wasn't interested in my.. Please keep in mind. That in the 3 months i
traded
letters with her. which you might think it was only 30 letters or so...
it was more
like 400 letters in 3 months. so after no response from the
face book letter i sent
to her... I figured out that my DM is really a
big,big,big
scam.. and
they need to be shut down and chased off the Internet... They are
playing emotional
games with guys from around the world... And that's not right at
all... If any guy
any where in the world wants to know how popular you are in the f.s.u.
sign up to
elenasmodels.com and you will find out the cold hard truth... And this
next part
goes out to American men only.. the IMBRA Law in America. depicts all
American men
as sexual predator's.... You don't believe me.. read the law for your
self... and
then read Elena's other site talking about Russian and Ukrainian
women...The women
over there are not interested in American men..... And then go find the
web site
about Ukrainian women... The truth is there. those sites were set up by
Russian
women.. and the truth you will find there will tell you
what your real chances are with women from that part of the
world... And you might
find that your chance in finding a good American woman are actually
better. My last
peace of advice... Do what i am going to do... I am making plans to
take a vacation
and going to Russia and Ukraine.. I am going to find out real truth.
And see it
with my own eyes. From what i understand... dating agencies over there.
are like
mcdonalds are in america. on every corner.. But once i see it with my
own eyes.. I
will know the real truth... oh!! one more site you should
read.. and that is
Kievconnections.com you will get a good idea of what you are really
getting into..
oh!! and the girl i was talking to.. told me that on my DM
her along
with all the girls who uses the agency. must reply for all letters in
thier mail
box's... So I figure by the amount of letters i was getting form the
women on that
site.. she was probably getting 5 to 6 times that... and she was
probably corresponding with 10+ guys.. So if you want to
really know. you are just
a guy. on a list of guys. on the girls screen that she has got to reply
to.. And
probably not because she wants to.. because she wants to keep her
account... really
is a humblizing thing to find out... But the truth about my DM is
bad... and you are just wasting money on a pipe dream.. And as soon as
I get a hold
of my cousins brother-n-law. and get his story about his real bad
problems about
russian women. and the hell immigration and the us government put them
through for
3 years... american men will really re-think about looking for a wife
or partner in russia or ukraine..
Jim, Please for the love of god. post
this!!!!! Guys around the world!!!!! Need
to know this about my DM and russian women... I only
write
the truth
based on facts and long hours of investigation and
research... I wouldn't ever try
or to think about lieing or misleading anyone... Oh!!! and one last
thing to
american men... The disclosure form you have to fill out.. must be
signed before any
communication or any communication can continue... So That means that
dream-marriage-my
us braking a U.S. Federal Law.. So if you are talking to a girl on that
site. and
she is a real girl. and not just a dream-marriage-my employee... and
you
do get
married. it won't be considered real. because my DM
didn't
follow the
letter of the U.S. Federal Law.. and your wifes visa along with a the
Marriage visa
will be denied. Stateing in the law!!! That it is a fruadulant
Marriage. And
yet!!!!!!!!! No F.S.U. woman or girl has to do the same thing.
and loet us know who she is... Before hand... Oh!
and when the girl gets your
first letter. she has got to sign the disclosure form before reading
the letter...
So the relation ship or communication is doomed from the start..
Because to the
rest of the world... American men are seen as Sexual predator's. or sex
terrorist... Read the law... And then read the brake down of the law...
it may not
state it in the law... But That is the hidden point to it... It was
wrote by
american women to stop american men from find a better more respectable
woman. then american women...
****
more...
Jim,
Thanks for your website...I have decided to do some real homework on
these Russian/Ukrainian girls and the possibility of finding a bride
this way. I blew about $260 in 3 days on my DM
before the light finally dawned (your website assisted in the "sun
rising" process). Essentially, it looks like a gal in the
scam
section of your site "Viktoriya Ivasyk/Ivasuk" (page 6) is on
"www.my DM" with a "confirmed profile"...they think
they
are clever as not all (but the vast majority) of the ladies have
"confirmed profile" status. I clued in when I got an intro
email
from a 20 year old hottie "Oksana" (which, btw is the name of over 50%
of Ukranian women...if www.my DM is to be
believed)
with the exact words (practiacally word for word) as an email sent by a
"Kamelia" that was using photos of Viktoriya Ivasyk/Ivasuk and we had
exchanged several emails in 3 days. The scam is elaborate as
they
are sending attached photos in the email to you that are not in the
profile. I was already getting that gnawing "its to good to
be
true so it probably is" feeling, then I started reading your web-site
and checking up on www.my DM. What tripped
it
finally, was the joke that was in this canned loo-loo:
****
*customized lead where she is looking at your profile photo*
When I looked at it now I just remembered a joke which I like.
Here it is –
Shrek, Brad Pitt and Jennifer Lopez were all having lunch together.
Shrek said, 'I always thought that I'm the strongest man in the world,
but how can I be sure?' Brad Pitt said, 'I'm pretty sure I'm the
hottest man alive but I've never had it confirmed.' Jennifer Lopez
agreed. 'I'm told I'm the sexiest of them all, but sometimes I wonder.'
They all decided to consult the wicked Queen's mirror. The next day
they met and Shrek walked up with a smile. 'Well, it's true. The mirror
told me that I am the strongest man in the world!' Jennifer followed
and boasted,' it is true, it has been confirmed that I am the sexiest
woman alive!!' Brad walked in, head bent, tears in his eyes and asked,'
Who the hell is this
*SUCKERS NAME HERE*
I sent this joke just to make you smile. I enjoy humor, funny comedy
movies and being active. What movies and music style do you
like?
It’s cold and grey here today and this
things cheer
me up.
What have you been up to today?
*****
This text (along with the desciption of the weather that day) was
VERBATIM...anyway, perhaps this tangible info will help someone
else. I have cancelled my account with them and consider the
$260
education to be cheap by comparison. Again, thanks for your
resource and info, I know it is alot of work to provide this.
****
more...
Hi Jim,
DMs.com Scam
1. I had arrangements to meet her in Odessa next
week. All my correspondence was via email through DM.com. Previously, I had
corresponded with
her twice
through the website a-pretty.com
2. I thought she was confused about who I was on DM.com I started all over with the
introduction
process.
3. I obtained her mailing address from A-pretty.com and sent
her
an overnight express letter. She never got it via DM
correspondence.
4. I called her phone number obtained through Russian
friends. She told me she was a pharmacist and I was able to
obtain the real information about this girl via her job search which
was posted with Russian employment agencies. Her address with
her
pharmacist information and medical school information matched that from
A-pretty.com. I called the phone on her job resume from
Russian
employment agency. The girl who answered phone confirmed all
facts I knew about her from DM Site.
EXCEPT,
she did not know that I was visiting her next week and she was not sure
who I was. She did confirm that she had been writing letters
to
foreign men but was not aware of DM.
So I conclude either she is a scammer or the website is a
scam.
They had arranged for a translator to be with me next week--all week 4
hours per day--for $10 an hour, a flat for $80 a night, and a taxi to
drive me everywhere for $100 per day.
Not sure how this scam would work because I would obviously know it was
not her if I actually met someone.
I am not reporting the girl because of the phone call where she did
confirm that she was looking for someone and do not want to cripple her
efforts.
Thanks, ****
more...
Hi Jim!
After reading about ( DM ) on your site I had
to
see for myself just how big of scam this site was.
I first
signed up as a free Bronze member and with in a few minutes I
started receiving letters from the ladies.
About 15
hours later I had 160 letters and many admires now being I am
48
years old I would not have expected over 150 of
these
letters to be from girls 18 to 27 years old. At
this point
I signed up for the three days free trial silver membership
to
read the letters. The content of these
letters varied
from a simple hello to some rather long letters and
many
did include photos. I am enclosing one letter that I
received . Now this letter was not common
as to the
content of most letters ,but it does show
that real
serious girls would not ever send a letter like this
to
someone they do not know . I have
original copy with
photos if you want to see them
From: Anastasia
ID: 80548
Hi my Dear!!!
You really got my interest!!! I like you very much! Do you
know what I’d
like to do with you???????? I would love you to take me to
bed and remove my
clothes lay me down and lay down beside me . I’ll
kiss your lips gently run my
fingers up and down you spine. Kiss your chin and checks
always coming back to
your lips. Kiss you ears gently niibble the lobes. Returning
to you lips.
Then kiss your neck while running my 1 hand and fingers up
& down your spine.
Then kiss your nipples. Run my tongue around it. While
running my fingers down
the back of you legs to the back of the knees. My one hand
never leaves your
nipples and the other contuals to work on the back and
insides of you legs
getting higher and closer to you perfect manhood. Finally I
reach it will my
lips and tongue and we finish is a spent tangle of loving
bodies. To fall
asleep in each other arms. To wake later to start again. Now
how does that leave
you and I hope you have dreams about it for many night I
will!!!! How do you
find my desire???????mmmmmm....
Your pationate Anastasia.
Now many of the girls on this site have profiles on other sites
and maybe some really are looking to get married.
But alot
of profiles are of some known scamers and
professional
daters or Gold diggers. And the same thousands of
profiles
that seem to be on all they bigger sites. These profiles are
the
questionable ones as to actually finding a real woman. So why
waste the money? If you do use the chat and live web cam you
will
spend any where from 30 to 60 dollars per hour.
And yes there are hundreds of hot women just waiting to take
your money and to leave your pockets empty.
As far as I can see there are a handful of agencies that are
working the web cam and chat scam through this
site. The
girls will spend any where from a few hours up to
24 hours
on line web cam and chatting.
And if you google these girls the girls that mostly
are on
the web cams and chat many will not be
found on other
sites. Most likely because it’s just a job for them
and
nothing more…Really if you are not viewing a girl
live on
the web cam I would have doubts. It seems to me
that it
could be anyone working there at the time would be
chatting
with you. Who knows maybe you are paying 30 dollars an hour
to
talk to a Guy. This would not at all surprise me.
Most of these girls are just working for the agencies making
a
living .I do not know that for a fact, but common
sense
says no woman that beautiful is so desperate
to spend
40 + hours a weeks looking for a man… I think with this site
or
any pay per letter or credit site. It might be
possible to
find a few honest women, but the odds are not in your favor.
This site is just set up to take money and as much as they
can.
If you read very carefully their requirements to get the
girls personal information it is very expensive.
You first
need to be a paying member cost about $30 to $150
for a
total of 3 months depends on level of membership
then you
need to have used over 600 credits on the lady first.
Cost
about $250 then another 100 credits $39 TO $50 for
administrative
fees.
So it would cost $400 or more before you could get her
personal
information and there is no guarantee she will give
this to
you. No refunds so you’re SOL if she says
no.
. Now this is only the minimum requirement for one
ladies
information. If you also exchange letters chat more often you
could add another $300 or more to the grand total
for
starters. Now add three or four other ladies you
may have
interest in and all of a sudden you have invested a
great
amount of money and have not yet even met in person any of
these
women.
In all reality you will spend a minimum of $1000 dollars or
more
for each woman you correspond with if you wish to
meet
them. Now if you have no way of knowing if she is
one of
the agencies working girls you may be in for a real surprise
when you arrive to meet her. With most of the scam
agencies
in the Ukraine The girl will not be traveling
alone. She
will have a Translator with her even if she does speak well
enough. It is just another way for you to spend more
money
while you are there. You can expect to spend $1500 or more on
gifts and shopping for these young girls it seems
to be
common now. American men like to show off while they are
there
and try to buy the ladies affection. As for their
testimonials on dream date the majority are only about meeting
these women you do not read about being married.
And there
is a good reason for this.
For many of the girls that are now on dating sites they look
at a
man coming to visit as bonus pay. Even many of the
girls
you think are serious find that foreign men are a
great way
to supplement their income. They will receive gifts maybe go
shopping be taken out to eat and basically shown a good time
all for free. They know how to use what they have to get what
they want. They will be very pleasant and great
company for
you. And as stupid as men are most will return home thinking
these women have fallen in love with them. I think
there
are few Russian women that fall in love until married and it
is
a cold love at best. Jim it seems even a
good honest
woman living in Russia or the Ukraine sees nothing
wrong
with using stupid men. If you think about it why not?
I do
not have to tell you this you know Russian and Ukraine women
have
made an art to doing what ever it takes to get what
they
want. And to pretend to like someone for a few days with a
pay
off of gifts and travel. Testimonials they mean absolutely
nothing even if they are written by real life
experience.
To sum it all up DM has no real value for the
dollar.
As for being a scam!!! This site offers nothing more than a
form
of entertainment at a high cost. The odds
of actually
finding a woman you could marry are little to none
at best.
A real way for anyone to test the creditability of DM
or Anastasia web is simple tell anyone to place a
profile
on DM Anastasia web Natasha club or any other
pay
per letter site. If they do they will have hundreds
of
letters in the first few days. From girls 18 on up
no
matter how old you are.
Then place a profile on an Honest dating site like
Elena’s models unless you actually write
and make an
effort you will get maybe one or two letters. And I
would
guarantee if you do get a letter with out first writing it will be
from a lady with in 3 years the same age. I guess
any man
that actually thinks 18 to 20 year old Russian
women are
waiting for their 40+ year old Pot bellied prince to
come
and save them maybe deserves to be given a lesson in life…
Thanks for all you do and keep up the good fight!!!
****…
more...
i know
for a fact that dream-marriage-my is scamming men. i have
visited a woman in
ukraine
that has been approached by them to send letters, and the
women
in the agency get paid for their correspondence.
thanks
more...
Hi Jim
I am currently in contact with a legit girl from my DM.
She actually set up a code for me to read her personal email address in
one of her messages and I have been talking to her for 3
months outside of DM. She has sent me pictures of herself, I've been on
web cam with her and she even recently send me a family video of her
sister's wedding with her and her entire family in it so she is legit.
She tells me that DM is a massive scam and even though she has
cancelled her profile with them, they are still using it on their site
to scam other guys.
She know for a fact that the agency uses and pays girls to do this sort
of stuff and I was 100% sure after I located some of the other girls I
spoke to, on both dream-marriage-my and Anastasia.com with identical
photos but totally different profiles including different birth dates.
I'll join the sites below and copy this and my previous story on them
to help you nail these pricks in court.
Cheers Jim and keep up the good work.
****
more...april
09
i was DM for 10
months off and on. something told me to be wary and i wish i
would
have found this site sooner. anyhow, to make the story
short............make 2 profiles for yourself. you will need
2
seperate email addresses. be creative. post a photo
of an ugly person
or whatever you want...but be creative on what you post on your 2
profiles. then log into both profiles. then compare
what you see.
it
does not make sense why a smoking hot 19 year old would want to
communicate with an old fart,that is ugly, fat and on his death
bed....(remember the being creative thing?)
more...May
09
Hi Jim,
Ok,
I'm glad I found your website because I wanted to badly rant about this
and also inform the many many men out there (mostly American) about the
truth on DM. I joined the website months ago. I chatted
and corresponded with one girl from Moldova. I obviously spent a lot of
money on communication and a couple of gifts. I proposed a personal
meeting and she agreed. She actually turned out to be real
and picked
me me at the aiport. She was indeed a nice girl, however she said she
would not want to pursue a relationship with me because of chemistry
which probably was true or not. She decided to remove her profile from
the site and three others she had been on. They removed her profile on
DM but not Army of Brides and another one I don't know
about the other one. I think her case was one of a good girl wanting to
make money while screwing men over when doing so. She did play the game
of scamming men but this one had a conscience. We kept in touch through
personal email. I told her I would keep searching for a girl on DM on
told me to be careful when meeting girls on sites like these. Yes, I
was fool enough to keep looking and using the same site. She would
mention to me to be careful because a lot of Ukrainian women just
wanted to make money at men's expense. She would not get into details
about anything though. So, the second time around I decide to
meet and
communicate with more girls to improve my chances of meeting the one. I
did correspond with a few and decided to plan another trip to Ukraine
to 3 different cities. I got all of their contact informations and
talked to most of them on the phone before. Now, one I get to Ukraine
here's what happens with the first one. This one asked for an
interpreter and wants to go to a city near by to have more time with
each other. So, you can imagine the amount of money on interpreters'
fee, hotel..... She also likes to go to expensive restaurants and wants
me to buy her medicine for her mother, for herself, shoes, ......gifts
for the family, etc..... Total blood-sucking heartless b..tch. So,
here's another modality of scam, even for the hopeful who travels and
actually meets girl. Like a read in one of the posted letters, it seems
some girls do enjoy living it up for a few days with men from abroad.
On the second city, I meet with this other girl. She turns out to be a
really nice real girl (as far as I know). Now, it's the opposite of the
last one. She does not expect to be treated or accept money..... except
one present I got her. A very sweet girl who told me the truth about
DM. She said 70-80 % of girls on this site do work for DM,
corroborating everything that's been written before. Girls get a
percent from the time the spend chatting, and sending letters. A lot of
them have boyfriends who are ok with them working there because they
make money. Most are not impressed and would not want to meet a middle
age american men. Since, it'a job, they're on a schedule, so you always
seem them on certain hours of the day. Their managers check on them to
make sure they respond to letters quickly. Some say they're in a
different city when they're actually in another. They have many offices
in Nikolaev which is the scamming center. Sometimes, they chat or talk
to you on the phone pretending they're the girls they say they are.
Some girls who work full time could make 800 dollars a month, which for
Ukraine is pretty good and you could just imagine how much the
administrators of this site make in the US and in Ukraine. Girls would
prolong relationships with me after seeing them and would try to be
sent money by them coming up with different reasons, but never have
intentions of anything except scamming men. These are many among
different reasons why this is probably one of the most disgusting and
vicious sites that prey on men seeking honest relationships. I
obviously believe most of the things this girl told me and perhaps I
might even get a nice relationship with her, although time will tell
about this. I'm still on my trip and onto my third city Odessa. I'm
supposed to meet 2 ladies tomorrow and maybe one more later. Now, I
don't expect anything and I'm very cautious about spending more than on
the first city. One more thing... even if men don't make travel
arragements through an agency, the girl usually request interpreting
services and the rate is $20. the girl splits the amount with the
interpreter and probably the agency. The nice girl I met told me about
this. So, that's another way to make money. If you spend a whole day or
afternoon that adds up pretty quickly to the bill. These girls are Army
of Brides which I think is a sister site of DM. We'll see how these
meetings go. At least I met a seemingly nice already and even if these
are more scams, it would make it all worth it.
I hope this helps some hopeful men and somebody does something to close
DM and the other deceiptful websites.
****
more...
Hi
........I have read your web page in regards to DM and also
about the
law suit that you are engaged in against Anastasia International, who I
believe is
associated with DM. I have come to many of the conclusions
others have in regards
to DM.. I have been a member of DM for roughly 6 months, and
have spent many
thousands of dollars communicating with ladies in Ukraine,
whom I believed had
honest intentions. Recently, however, I had an interesting
discussion with a young
lady on DM who is from Russia, and claims that the site is a complete
scam. In her
words 95% of the girls, especially those from the Ukraine are simply
there for
monitary purposes. Most are too clever to ask you for the
money...they know that
would be too obvious. Instead they string you along for
months promissing a
relationship with you, all the while being paid for their services to
DM. In her
words....the site (DM) receives 50% of the funds you pay for
chatting, sending letters, etc., the Agencies receive 25%,
and the girls receive
20-25%!!!!!!!!! If this is true, obviously their intentions
are not sincere.
Rather they are there to get you to spend money on that
site.. When I learned this
from her I felt physically ill. I mean I have actually been
to Ukraine and met
with two of these girls. They seemed genuine, and
interested........at least that
is how it appeared to me. But maybe they are just very clever
and, well
practiced. So...I am hoping that I can gain some insight from
you, and also learn,
what if anything can be done to punish those involved in this
scam. DM
is located in Nevada, USA....so cant there be some legal recorse
here?? The only
question is this....how do you ever prove it??? Anyhow....I
hope to hear back from
you and receive some guidance. If possible I would really
like to get these
guys....
Sincerely,
****
more...
hello jim, ill keep it short.
i noticed that the reno nevada bbb does not have any complaints about
DM, so i completed a complaint. if you need help i have
first hand
information about DM scamming. i know that any
presents bought are
taken to the girl for pictures, but the girl is not allowed to keep the
presents.
also the girl i am talking to in ukraine was approached by them to
write letters in
mass to send out to unsuspecting men. i also know that the
girls get a part of the
money that is spend when they are chatting witht the men.
thanks jim good work
****
more...
i
have the e-mail address of a lady on DM,we talked some then
she (of course) wanted me to send her money for her internet service.So
we exchanged harsh words and we mutually hate each other,then surprize
3 weeks later I get a messsage from her on DM,who wrote
it,DM,believe me it isn,t the woman in the picture,why
would she leave me a messsage on DM when she has my e-mail
address,and my account on dm is not active,just sitting there
collecting messages,even though my profile has trashed ukrainean women
on the site,it nuts,it not real
more - July, 2010
Jim,
I have been scammed by Dream. I have went to Ukraine and have been scammed by the lady that I met through Dream. In person, she started scamming right away. She did not waste any time. She would never do that in words while on Dream.
Dream
has admitted to me on the phone about this. It only took me about 100
calls and threats that I would show up on their doorstep in Carson
City. They do have employees there, I have had that confirmed last year.
I
did meet a lady while I was there who would never post her profile but
she would write letters for the women. She needed the money. She has
quit since but told me everything. She does not want to scam so she
would not make a profile. She had an interview at an agency and was
turned down because she would not make a profile like she wanted a 50
year old man from America.
This lady was in the U.S. as an
exchange student and she speaks perfect English with only a little
accent. I know she has written letters for Anastasia among others.
I can give her contact information to you if you would like, just ask. I WOULD DO ANYTHING TO SEE DREAM MARRIAGE PAY FOR THE TIME AND MONEY THEY COST ME.
THE
MOST DISGUSTING EXPERIENCE IN MY LIFE, without a doubt. I am still mad
a year later and the next time I go to Vegas, I will swing by Carson
City, time permitting. Thank you, ****
more...
Dear Jim, I
really wish I had found your website before I joined DM!!!! My best
friend tried to talk me out of joining but I was lonely and was hoping
for a "miracle". Well to say the least I got taken for about $1000 !!!!
Are those sites all a scam from russia and Ukraine ?? Boy do I feel
stupid for not listening to my friend !!!! Thx for listening to me
rant, ****
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