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Your
Russian, Latin & Asian Marriage Agency Checklist - By THE
Leader in Anti-Scam - Jim
Why
is "China Love" (chnlove.com)
"Chn Love" (chnlove.com)
"Qpid Network" (qpidnetwork.com)
"Thai Matches" (Thaimatches.com)
on my "Hell
No"
List?
China Love
(chinalove.com)
Chn Love (chnlove.com)
Qpid Network (qpidnetwork.com)
Thai Matches (Thaimatches.com)
In my OPINION...
Based on the reports that I have received...
It APPEARS that this site/agency...
This is the 1st and
ONLY report I have on this agency.
It is the weakest
reason I have ever had for putting an agency on the Grey list.
Read the report and
use that info to help you when you talk with the agency about your
using them.
OOOOPS -
NEW REPORTS - NOW ON THE BLACK LIST!!!!!!!!!!!
New Report
- May, 2010
Jim,
Hello. Big news ! SUPER SCAM.. and a Solution for it.
Please
post this at the top of your list of reports on CHNLOVE. They are the
ultimate scammers. Check this out and tell people to use my method for
testing the sites for fraud like this. Note: that you cannot get a
phone number or real address for the women. They say on the profiles
the women have cell phones but you can't communicate directly with
them. They do this to force you to use the site for all communications
and hide the deception described below. It is all a scam.
Shazam - " I found a way to weed out some of the scams really quick."
I
have been dealing with these guys for months. Wasted a few hundred
dollars testing them. I have discovered that they fabricate profiles
out of thin air. "Imaginary people with beautiful photos and wonderful
words". They designed designed the site to generate email traffic paid
per message in both directions.
I have collected lots of
evidence. They have ladies write messages from these fake profiles to
get you to pay them for the fake messages. They were pretty consistent
sending me fake emails on a regular basis of
about 5 or 6 per day. Note that we are have to pay $7.50US
for these
FAKE messages from hot looking dolls who want to get married. Thousands
of
men are doing it. I suspect that very few of the profiles are real and
the ones that are never actually communicate with the men who write at
all. The meetings that occur are arranged.
They have seem to
have bi-lingual translators each act as hundreds of different women in
order to draw the men to the site and China. Upon arrival in China the
service simply selects a woman. She may or not resemble the woman the
man wanted to meet. I suspect the woman is given printed translations
of communications (or not) so that she might know what the translator
said on her behalf.
I discovered that the minute I pressed
them that I was going to have someone meet the woman the messages which
flowed daily required "weeks" to get a reply form the woman. The real
woman was not easy to get communications from if she existed.
The Solution (a Test)
I
tested them by saying that I wanted to have my own representative
deliver a gift and meet the woman for a photo and questions in China
prior to my travel there to meet her.
As soon as I did this
the woman's profile disappeared and the company stopped sending fake
email to me. In fact I got no email whatsoever from new women who
supposedly were reading my profile and sending me messages after that
statement to the service. Ha wow.
These are the all same operation under various names. (there are other
names also)
CHNLOVE.CN
CHNLOVE.com
Qpid Network (qpidnetwork.com)
Thai Matches (Thaimatches.com)
more...
Jim,
I have just finished a two week tour of China, that included visits to
CHNLOVE. I
would rate this group of companies as something to definitely be aware
of. There
are girls, and they definitely want to get married, but the problem is
in the
execution of the company. They make their money translating
messages for men [like
me] who contact ladies and then pay to have a message
translated. One of their
offices (Changsha) had 5 young ladies reading and translating messages,
and a second
office (Chengdu) had three.
I did meet ladies, but they were entirely different from their
pictures, which is
where the problem comes in. Several of the interpreters
hinted at angry clients who
traveled to see a particular lady, and then were disappointed at who
met them.
Do I rate this agency a scam? I would have to answer yes, although to
their credit,
they do present the ladies to you, albeit not the person you went to
see. At $3,000
a pop to travel to these countries, there is a definite problem.
Can you meet someone who interests you? Yes! But your going
to have to work at it.
I would say you need to meet 10 ladies to find 2 who may appeal to
you. I am no
newcomer to this game, and this was my 10th trip overseas, so I am
aware of the
games played by marriage agencies. I knew enough to schedule
as many ladies as
possible to avoid a total trip failure.
Again, this company is probably legit, but should be put on a watch
list until they
get the "glamour photos" bit cleaned up. Posting a photo that
does not come close
to resembling the person is not an honest way to do business.
****
OK,
now I have more...
Hi Jim,
I have been a member of CHNLove for about 3 years and there is
definitely a scam there. I have travelled there twice
now,
Even after corresponding with one of the ladies for 6 months and having
been told (in her e-mails) that she was taking English classes, I got
there and she could not speak a word of English. Naturally,
the
agency was happy to offer the services of an interpreter.
Agencies apparently tell the ladies that they do not need to learn
English until the man asks her to marry her and pays for her English
courses, which are by the way given by the translator who works at the
agency. I also know from experience and from having talked to
a
few of the ladies who are members on this site that there is a lot of
deception and lies going on there. One would think that at
the
price that we pay for sending and receiving an e-mail, the service
would be at least honest. But in many cases, it is anything
but
honest.
First, men send letters to ladies. The agency receives the
letter, translates it for the lady and will show the man’s
profile to the lady. By the way, the lady has already paid a
little fortune by Chinese standards to be on this site and she also
gets charged for every letter that she receives and every letter that
she sends (each letter therefore amounts to $6 or more; a pretty hefty
charge for this kind of service in China).
If the lady likes the man, she will write to him and the agency will do
kind of what they advertise. In most cases, they will call
the
lady, somewhat read a translated version of the letter over the phone,
omitting any kind of contact information in order to retain the
exclusive control of the communication between the man and the
woman. Often, the lady will summarize how to answer the
letter to
her translator. The translator will then sit down and write a
letter, feeling quite free to add stuff, to embellish the feelings or
words from the lady, and of course, ensuring that no direct contact
information gets passed. So, the answer we get is in many
cases
not even a translation of a letter written by the lady. For
instance, I had been writing to that lady everyday for 2
months.
I had asked to get her phone number and e-mail. I finally
received it this week in an e-mail. In her letter, the lady
said
that her English was not great, but that she would do her best to
communicate. I did phone her this weekend. Whose
phone
number was that? Her translator! She made nice
promises
that she would call the lady the next day to see if she wanted me to
have her private cell number. Surprise! The e-mail
signed
by the lady clearly said to call her, that she was expecting my
call. Why would her translator need that lady’s
permission
to give me her phone number if that lady’s e-mail was
genuine? Strike One!
If the lady has no interest in developing a relationship with a man who
just wrote to her, it gets even more interesting! I have been
told by ladies of the kind you describe, the ones that look totally
different in person than they do on their glamour photo, that when they
showed no interest in a man, the agency or the translator would
approach them and ask for permission for the translator to write to
this man on their behalf anyway, but at no charge to the
lady!
So, the man who thinks that his lady likes him will be lured to send as
many e-mails as possible. When the heat in the kitchen gets
too
high, the translator will find a way to break-up the
relationship. This happened to me recently. I found
out the
truth when talking to a friend of mine who encountered the same
ending. Strike two!
Sometimes, without the lady being aware of anything, the agency will
use her profile to attract men and make money. Last summer, I
initiated contact with a lady from Luizhou, Guangxi province.
That lady indicated on her profile that she was living in Rotterdam,
Netherlands. I liked her a lot (I thought), so I made travel
arrangements to go meet her. I told her what time I would
arrive,
where I would stay and that I wanted to have dinner with her on the
night of my arrival. When I arrived Rotterdam she was not at
the
Central station to meet my train as we had agreed. I called
her
mobile several times, but there was no answer. I sent her SMS
and
e-mails, still no answer. I was stuck in Rotterdam with no
date. Finally, three days later, I managed to reach that
lady. She had been away on vacation for more than two weeks
and
she had not been aware at all that I was coming! The agency,
having been unable to contact her, faked her replies to me.
We
finally met, but like in many other cases, she was a far cry from the
photos on her profile. She was nevertheless nice and we
became
friends. Her English was very limited, but she managed to
explain
to me that she did like me and had told the agency that she was
interested in communicating with me. But that she received only about 3
of my e-mails, out of a total of about 20, and that she had replied
only to these 3 e-mails. All of the others had been totally
made
up by the agency. She also told me that the agency also has a
few
ladies who are very good looking and who are indeed looking for a
husband, but who do not mind toying with men in which they are not
interested for the benefit of the agency, and for their own as well, as
the agency gives them a free ride (no fee membership), especially if
they are willing to play the game in case the man requests a chat
online. These ladies often get a lot of men trying to get in touch with
them, so they get to pick and chose whom they want to write to, and
leave the other suckers to the translators to play with.
Strike
three!
The problem is that there is absolutely no quality control over the
translation made and these translators are in a flagrant conflict of
interest. They need to keep the money flowing in and they
have no
problem lying and deceiving men just to shore up their
business.
I think that they need to be shown for what they really are.
I am
sure that there are honest ladies out there. But there are
many
honest and sincere men also who are being deceived by CHNLove and its
agencies. I hope that you can expose them for what they are
and
force tem to come clean or shut down the business. You can
quote
this e-mail as being from one of their disillusioned
customers.
If you wish more details, do not hesitate to contact me. Have a nice day
****
more...
Hello!
I read your comment about Chinalove. May I add, from first hand
knowledge, I agree they are dishonest. including, but not limited to
photos. I am a member and wrote them about the photos. pics of ladies
45yrs. old that look 30. I ask them if they guarantee their photos.
They said they only posted photos furnished by the ladies. One thing
that really irks me is that they "refresh" ladies profiles. Chinalove
states that every so often they contact the ladies as to their
availibility. If they are still searching, they will "refresh" that
profile and post it as if they are still single and looking. That is a
LIE. I have been communicating with a lady for about 2 months. She is
very serious and wants us to meet and hopefully get married. I noticed
her profile refreshed Sept. 10, then on Sept. 23, and then last week.
Out of respect, I said nothing the first 2 refreshes. I asked her
about. She explained it was not convenient that she told me prior.
She paid to join and was under contract until she got
married.
Part of this contract was that Chinalove could refresh her profile
every two weeks, if they so desired. She considers herself
"off
the market" but as far as Chinalove is concerned, this
beautiful
lady is displayed as single and searching. They also advertise free
Cupid Notes, but when an exceptional lady is listed, you cannot send a
free cupid note. They inform you she has received many in the last 48
hours and advise you to write her (@ 4 to 5 dollars a letter) Quite a
scam. They also advertise their agencies are open 7 days a
week.
Another lie. Some may be, not all. The sad part is this website is full
of many very good and honest ladies. Some have sent, as requested,
photos of daily life. Many, I did not recognize. Others are similar.
Just look 10 yrs. older. Thanks for reading this.
****
NEW - FEB 09
Jim,
I came across your reviews for Chnlove through
another
website, Pfishy, where many of us past members of Chnlove have been
posting our experiences. I'm not sure why Chnlove remains only a "grey"
scam on your Review Site. It's true that generally, older
guys
are pictured as their apparent "success stories" but I would advise
this is largely done after-the-fact, not because of the setup of their
scheme.
Chnlove uses 'translation' as a mask to
misrepresent and
deceive paying clients. Two things worth noting: Girst,
'Chnlove'
attempts to pass the buck to their regional, multi-level marketers,
whome they like to call the 'local Agencies'.
Second, it is
a rare day if the lady in question actually sees many, if any, of the
gentlemen's emails (for which they pay a relatively large amount)
before, or IF, they should ever meet in person.
When I read the reviews posted on your site thus
far, I
was troubled by the pattern of stories told since many sound uncannily
similar, if identical, to my own. I should have known from
the
get-go that things were not right. In one of the early letters, the
writer was almost speaking in the "3rd person". She said, 'You may call
me A, or BA, or Ms.
A'. I thought that
was rather odd, since I had been writing to this person on a
first-name basis.
I was also told in my exchange with the
primary
connection I was interested in (I must have corresponded with about 5
ladies, who I now realize were all likely 'Translators') that she was
taking English courses. Having read the testimonials of your
other contributors, I can now see that it was likely a fabrication to
skit a number of other things, including not having the time to write
to me by (free) private email - and 'having' to use Chnlove as the taxi
meter was running.
Something that your other
contributors did not
refer to though, are those costly 'gifts' which Chnlove flogs using its
banners (It's Valentines, it's Labour Day, Oh, it's Chnlove's
Anniversary Day - I'm obviously exaggerating here ... WHY NOT
buy
that 'special lady' [read: Translator] a nice 'gift for that 'special
day'. Well, I bought a number
of gifts like a
fool. And although a couple of ladies
acknowledged my
gift when I emailed with them, the others had to respond RETRO-actively
.... "oh, yeah ... er, uh ... yes, Thank You for
'that'
gift .... it was, um, sweet
...". So, if
I were to make a bet, I'd suggestion none of my 'gifts' were ever
purchased or delivered to anyone,
anywhere.
Nice to pad the old pocket there, Chnlove, I guess.
Like your other
contributors, I've
decided to take an 'active' approach as well, and let everybody
know. If I've been bamboozled, at least this might
save
others from going the same route.
****
more...
Hey Jim,
thought I'd write in as well. Better take them off the grey list, go
for black on black. Not only were all three of my ladies at least
partially false, messages failed in congruency, but I have one admirer
who wrote me twice, 5 months apart. She uses two different pictures,
one in white one in yellow shirt. This girl is sending my initial
admirer contact. What is strange is that she writes the same letter 5
months apart. So, the lights go on.
Better let it be known,
****
more...
Hi Jim,
Here's another update for you and your readers re. the Chnlove scam
site.
A
lot of review / scam busting sites, including yours, have been doing a
great job informing customers of the scams out there. On one of the
other review sites (www.pfishy.com) the site came under
attack. It
looks like the administrator and programmer identified the attack
coming from guys in China (no surprise). If you and your
readers check
July 2nd, there is a post (at least, currently) explaining how the site
came under a spam attack. They were mainly offensive posts generated by
current promoters of Chnlove who had tried to post under fake names to
bury the posts of legitimate customers who had been scammed by Chnlove.
I
hope your site and the others do not have to deal with the same
experience as pfishy did. But be on the look-out.
Word is that
Chnlove may be on its last legs. No business as guys get wiser.
****
NEW
REPORTS - JAN 2010
Hello Jim
I
am and was a member at chnlove. I was very suspicious of what was going
on. I had communicated with a lady for some time, and she
asked
me to come to see her, in nine months. A lot of letters and
business in that time. But I didn't do it. I did a surprise
phone
call on her, but I would not tell her who I was and there was no way
she could guess. I kept her on the spot, and she could not
guess.
So to keep this short, I was on a free site and I saw a lady
who
was on the chnlove site. This is our conversation, and it is
a
little bit interesting. I gave her a different name.
2020 wrote:
Hello Sarah
Pleased
to meet you here. I was registered at Chnlove and saw your profile
there and you sent me a note, which I greatly appreciate.
There
was so many bad reports about this company, that I had a hard
time to communicate, because I couldn't trust who was real or
not. I phoned a girl whom I communicated for months with, and
we
became a little bit serious, and she said things that made us
sound close. When I phoned her, she could not guess my name,
at
all. So what about this company. Are they honest?
****
Sarah wrote:
hello
****,nice to meet you here.could u tell me some more about the bad
reports of chnlove?and i can tell u something true about
that.the
woman who u contacted thats not the real woman.thats shall be
the
translators of agency of chinlove.so no wonderful when u
called
the lady that she didnt know who u r.i guess that all ladies in
chinlove are in this situation.
Sarah
2020 wrote:
Thanks
for the valuable information. Just confirms what I was suspecting. So
did you send me a letter of interest, or was it just chnlove
making more business? I heard that the woman are not treated
well
also. So I think there are a lot of sincere ladies at the
agency,
only they are not being treated fair? Do you have your own internet? I
can send you links to sites exposing chnlove if you like. I
wrote
to a couple of other girls briefly, and I could tell it was a
scam, just to use up my credits. The ladies letters are all
the
same. No personal questions, and short as possible.
Sarah wrote:
sorry
i never sent any letters to anybody so far.all letters in chnlove thats
only the agencies can write and send them to men.all ladies
in
chnlove cant write any letters to
men.its not
allowed to do that.every letter in chnlove be send and received by
agency.so if u send the letters via the chnlove that mean u
send
letters to agency.do u understand what i say.thats why the
letters what u received are all same and short.
2020 wrote:
http://agencyscams.com/Why/chinalove.html
Here is one site exposing it. It says chinalove on the address, but on
the site, they are speaking about chnlove.
Sarah wrote:
hope the all people would removed from the scam soon.
2020 wrote:
Well,
I understand. Does anyone there ever get married I wonder? At least I
know now to stay well away. I had about another 20 letters
there,
no problem. I guess we become smarter with age. If you can't
access the link let me know, and if you want, I can find a
few
more for you.
Sarah wrote:
thanks i can browse the site
which u gived to me.yes thats true totally what jim said in
the
website.all people in chnlove paid the money to them but hardly to meet
the right person for ourself.i am thinking that what i must
do to
help the other people to removed from the scam.
LETTER
TO AND FROM chnlove.com
Subject:
hmmmmm
I just wanted to bring your attention to this website and see if you
had anything to say about it?
http://agencyscams.com/Why/chinalove.html
Kind regards
***
From: Helen Wong (Customer Care)
To: ****
Date: 30 Dec, 2009 GMT
Dear ****,
Ni
Hao! This is Helen from Chnlove customer care. Thanks for sharing your
concern with us. I can fully understand your concern. I am very
grateful that you could let us know your thought, which gives us a
chance to address your concern and provide you possible assistance.
****,
I believe that you are sincere to look for your true love here, such
attitude is greatly appreciated and admired by us. Chnlove has always
treasured every single word of comments from the members and other
people who have not joined our site, as these are impetus which may
help us provide a safer and better platform to our sincere clients.
However, recently we notice that there are some people diffusing
negative information against us spitefully. Actually our Intendance
Department is looking into this matter currently, and will take legal
actions if necessary.
Chnlove has grown over the past decade
to be a responsible company who will care for our clients' needs. We
are fully aware that our company's reputation and long-term development
is built on the trust of our clients. As you might be aware, Chnlove is
independent from each local agency as individual companies. We pay the
agency who provides EMF messages translation and delivery services to
the Chinese ladies, thus enable free translation as well as
professional consultation service to the ladies, making it easier for
communication between people of different languages and cultures.
Though Chnlove is not involved in the internal business of each agency,
we have strict policies and regulations that each agency should censor
the ladies' profiles and offer quality service to help both male and
female members communicate smoothly. For more details about our
measures taken to against the dishonesty behaviors, please check below
page for reference:
http://www.chnlove.com/help/anti_fraud_policy.php
Also,
we welcome our gentlemen clients to rate and comment the work of the
local agencies. For those agencies who are reported for not doing a
satisfactory job, we will carry out further investigation and find out
the situation at the soonest. We earnestly hope that you could be with
us as a supervisor, valuator and impeller of the agencies' quality
service in Chnlove. We firmly believe your involvement and support is
always the wealth that nothing can compare with, and your feedback will
be the impetus to push Chnlove's and the agencies' services to a higher
level. :-) You may refer to the link below for other clients' comments
and rates after meeting their ladies in China:
http://www.chnlove.com/agency/feedback_stat.php
Thanks
again for your support to our service. Please feel free to let us know
if you have additional question or concern. We'll be glad to help our
sincere clients.
Kind regards,
Helen Wong
Chnlove Customer Care
JIM'S
NOTE - You'll notice that she did not defend or make any mention of my
site or the report against her company. What she did was give him a lot
of PR bullshit that sounds good, but says nothing. MOST IMPORTANTLY,
she laid out their system for everyone to see. And it is EXACTLY the
same way that anastasiadate and all the big scam Russian agencies work.
She is right, the main office of chnlove.com does NOT scam. It is all
the local offices that make fake profiles and write fake letters. This
place obviously took there model from anastasiadate and use the same
loophole to scam. "It wasn't us, it must have been the local office."
Well, the main office is responsible for their ENTIRE company's actions.
more...
Well
I am a rather old hand at this nonsense. Last year I took my adopted
Chinese daughter to YiYang to see her history and in the course got on
China Love website to see who I could meet. Actually I did meet a very
nice lady but had to hire the translator as her English was nil. I
negotiated ½ price after threats on their side that they would not
introduce me if I did not pay the full fare and basically I said fine-
I could care less, and of course they aquiessed. She came with her 20
year old daughter who actually spoke very good English so did I need a
translator?
Now here is the real story and scam. I
went back
to China this year recently to Changsha – I was on China love and
corresponding with a few great looking totally photo shopped girls
(always ask for natural photos) – one lady was posed very
erotically
that contacted me & oh by the way when they found out I was
coming
to Changsha in the period of 1 week I had 10 admirer mails ----alll
from Changsha women. Normally I would get one in a month. Are we really
this stupid? So I gleaned thru the list and by the time I arrived in
Changsha I had three solid dates lined up. Now I always ask the girls
to write to me on my private email which occasionally happens &
even then it can be the translator (guy or girl) of the agency.
To
keep the story short – I was contacted by a girl that I had given my
email to. She had written that she did not speak English and that I
should hire Nick – her translator – to pay him to meet with us and
translate. Well guess what she had visited the agency saw all this
bullshit crap, and remembered my email and contacted me directly. She
did not write or see half the letters – it was dear Nick. She had paid
10,000 RNB ( $1500 abt) to join, and was quite discouraged. She wrote
me that she was in fact fluent in English, that CHN love is a scam – in
the sense that the translators write the admirer letters to
you &
if you answer then they contact the girl and tell them they have a guy
that is interested in them. And yes in some cases you are never talking
at all to the girl-just the translators who get commission by putting
you on.
So I arranged to meet this lady at my hotel –
short
end she resigned from Chnlove – she is fabulous – I have been back to
see her 3 times and we are getting married in June. Exceptional lady –
fluent, legit, beautiful and detests ChnLove site. Before I met her I
made a date with one again hiring at half price the translator and we
met for supper at my hotel. Honestly, she was sophisticated, quite
lovely, fashionable and I was attracted to her except how can you have
a relationship with a women that cannot speak even basic English. The
translator was a nice girl as well – told me she was quitting in two
months as she couldn’t tolerate the chicanery (her words) of Changsha
Chnlove site (run by a Taiwanese guy) and that they cheat the
foreigners.
Summation – you need to know how to play the game-
its expensive – a lot of bullshit – but you can meet great women. You
must find ones that DO speak English – get them to contact you directly
– get their phone nos. ( ha it could be the translator) but if you do
call them on Skype and check them out thoroughly. The women in most
cases are legit – it’s the ageny and translators who think foreigners
are stupid. I paid my dues, have many more stories – but luckily I met
the love of my llife because of Chnlove, but not through
Chnlove. It
is also a long hard road if you want to marry re immigration , visa
etc. and if anyone needs advice I am very adept at handling these
matters and can give you pretty good advice. I lived in the Orient many
years and am familiar with the nuances, but honestly Chnlove is
something to be very careful about. If they hook you it’s a money pit
wasteland unless you get very lucky.
So I can only say be very
careful – if her profile says learning English she probably cannot
speak your language – get natural photos – if you still decide to meet
her negotiate price and always be careful in what you say. You are
writing to the translators and they have all power to reply to you – it
may be from her – it may be from them. If you cant get her on email –
yahoo- skype etc. forget it.
more...
Hello Jim
First,
I didnıt know this site, your sites, existed. I am much less naive.
Itıs an expensive lesson. This independent story will confirm other
reports about ChnLove.com (agencies). This is two years over-due, but
better late than never. It may help other guysŠ
The target
ChnLove agency is in Zhengzhou, China. In early 2007 I did the profile
and buying credits thing. I immediately was contacted by an astonishing
number of the ³gorgeous² category, all 15 20 years my junior. Late
30ıs, to-die-for beauty. (I was then 57.) It seemed suspicious. Iım not
a fool about women; I saw the manipulation and ³high maintenance²
factors. I did my own searching of the profiles and found one closer to
my age that felt right. Dozens of emails and four months later I go to
China, (the final cost is several thousand $$, as we all know).
She
was older and quite sensible in our letters. BUT all the posted photos
were retouched and some were from her mid-20s. To my eye she was quite
pretty, but not in the gorgeous category. At least I have that common
sense.
The woman, nice but intimidated easily, was charged
30,000 yuan (RMnB) to join the agency. An outrageous fee by Chinese
standards. I had the ³sense² to call the manager and send emails to
enquire were there agency fees to my lady friend and was told there
were none. I was lied to by the manager. My lady friend was charged for
each letter she received, each leter she sent, as was I. She was also
charged for all phone calls and conversations with her marriage broker,
over the $30,000 joining fee.
I went to China. I wasnıt
disappointed in my lady friend. I had made a wise choice. After two
weeks in China, the prospective woman and I were attracted to each
other and planned to go ahead with me extending my visit and meeting
her family. That was what we had agreed to in our correspondence. We
were taking it slow, but still going ahead with it. In my hotel room,
while making plans to extend my time in China, the agency
translator-marriage broker told my lady friend this was NOT acceptable.
She, my lady of choice, was ordered to meet at least one other man. The
translator then told us, in my hotel room, completely to our shock,
that another man was arriving in Zhengzhou the next Monday (immediately
after I was supposed to have left), and a meeting between the lady and
this other man was scheduled. Neither of us were aware of this other
man, at all. He had apparently written a letter some months before to
which she (my lady) had said no thanks.
The agency
translator had brokered the meeting with the ³new guy² without
consulting the lady‹written nice letters, made promises, etc., on her
behalf without telling her at all. Note this: I have a stable,
reasonable income. Iım not rich but I ainıt poor. The new guy was very
wealthy and 30 years her senior. He had apparently paid the agency to
ensure he got a meeting. The marriage broker hinted to me, in my hotel
room, that a cash gift to the agency would go a long way to realizing
the outcome in my favor.
In the mean time, over the course
of the two weeks I was there, I spent some time with my lady friendıs
teen-aged son. A rather well spoken lad of 16. He related stories about
gifts and money to the marriage broker that bothered him he could see
his mother being taken and it reminded me of the payola scandals.
In
my hotel room, the marriage broker intimidated the lady into a meeting
with the new guy, apparently using threats about breach of contract. It
was a very messy, painful scene in my hotel room. So, I didnıt extend
my stay. I left. [A year later I returned to Zhengzhou on unrelated
business and met the son again. We had dinner and a nice chat. In all
truth, the son was sad his mother didnıt marry me. She eventually
married the rich guy under pressure from the agency and her father.]
In
brief: I met a lovely age-appropriate woman that was completely
browbeaten by the marriage agency. The broker lied to both of us, lied
to the new guy, intimidated the woman, and walked away with a bribe Iım
told of a few thousand US. Oh wellŠ I returned to my home
country
and wrote a detailed letter of complaint about the agency and the
broker. I was told in no uncertain terms that I had no legal grounds
for compaint ‹ that was how China works, and that it was not the affair
of the ChnLove head office. Each agency (in the case Zhengzhou) was
independent.
I met a lovely woman, had a good time, and we
were planning to pursue it further. This was completely destroyed by
greed, deceit, intimidation, and gross irresponsibility on the part of
the agency and the marriage broker. Beware guys ‹ this stuff is very
real.
****
more...
Dear Jim,
COMPLANT CHNLOVE
Scam
all around. Ladies get scammed Men get scammed. The AGENCY has
translate and everything goes through the agency. The last thing they
want is direct communication. Any postal service to China othjer than
e-mail is useless.An example is a gift of flowers; look at the cost
49$, would buy flowers for a month. Mistakes are always self serving by
the agency
STAY AWAY FROM CHNLOVE!!!
****
more...
Hi Jim, I
have been on that site for a few years.
Things have proceeded much as you say. Things got interesting
and
we got closer then she had to disappear to take care of her sick
mother! Another gave no reason just said she had to leave the
site.
I twice sent 8x10 enveloppes of stuff to two different
ladies,
both addresses were written in Chinese and English. The correctness was
verified by my local Post Office people, who are
Chinese.
After a few months each enveloppe came back with "Unknown" from the
Chinese Post Office. !! Ta Da!!
****
more...
Hi Jim, I
have
been on that site for a few years.
Things have proceeded much as you say. Things got interesting
and we
got closer then she had to disappear to take care of her sick
mother!
Another gave no reason just said she had to leave the site.
I twice sent 8x10 enveloppes of stuff to two different
ladies, both
addresses were written in Chinese and English. The correctness was
verified by my local Post Office people, who are
Chinese. After a few
months each enveloppe came back with "Unknown" from the Chinese Post
Office. !! Ta Da!!
****
more...
Hello Jim,
I
have used your site for several years when I was looking for a bride in
Ukraine. I gave up on Ukrainian women and joined the CHNLOVE
site in
January 2007. I did not have the problems mentioned by the
other men
that made reports on your site. I think is only fair to give
a good
report when something good happens to let people know that not all of
the agencies doing business with CHNLOVE are scammers.
Yes, it
is true they charge for the emails going to the ladies. My
wife, I
married the woman I originally met at CHNLOVE, did not pay the agency
to join. When I sent her flowers before our first meeting,
she
received them I know this because she mentioned them during our first
week together. Having gone to the agency several times that week, I
know the ladies on the CHN site are the ladies at this
agency. I seen
many of them and they all looked very close to the pictures on their
site. They, as well as Zhihong, my wife now, helped with all
the
arrangements for me to get to Baoding including the ride from the
airport with the cost being minimal, as compared to the same thing in
the US. Yes, we needed a translator but I knew this well
before my
visit to Baoding. Yes, the site mentioned that she was
learning
English, but I thought this might not be true so that is one bad thing
against CHNLOVE. The ladies who visited the agency while I
was there
actually sat down and wrote out their letters and then handed them to
the translators to write them in English and send to the men.
After
the first week, me and Zhihong decided we were going to be married and
the local agency, at that time, charged me for Zhihong's participation
in using their services. Possible scam? No, they
told me their
charges before I headed to China if we decided to get
married. They
were upfront about the translator charging $7.00/hour and they told me
it was not required, but recommended it.
As it seems, you
are right about CHNLOVE being responsible for the things the other
agencies are doing whether good or bad. As for me, I had
nothing but a
good experience in dealing with this agency and would recommend them to
other people, albeit, since I know some of the other agencies in their
network are not so good, I would only recommend them looking for girls
in the Hebei district, Baoding City to be more exact.
Cordially,
****
China Love (chinalove.com)
Chn Love (chnlove.com)
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Jim
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